{"id":694,"date":"2023-10-12T08:12:30","date_gmt":"2023-10-12T08:12:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/careercaptains.org\/blogs\/?p=694"},"modified":"2023-10-12T08:12:33","modified_gmt":"2023-10-12T08:12:33","slug":"15-lessons-from-when-things-fall-apart-heart-advice-for-difficult-times-by-pema-chodron","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/careercaptains.org\/blogs\/15-lessons-from-when-things-fall-apart-heart-advice-for-difficult-times-by-pema-chodron\/","title":{"rendered":"15 lessons from When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times by Pema Ch\u00f6dr\u00f6n"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Pain is a part of life. We cannot avoid it.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Things fall apart. This is the nature of reality.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We can learn from our pain and suffering. They can help us to grow and become more compassionate.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We can develop resilience in the face of adversity.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>    <em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/alison.com\/course\/diploma-in-special-needs?utm_source=alison_user&amp;utm_medium=affiliates&amp;utm_campaign=25747799\">Earn Diploma in Special Needs As a Teacher<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"5\">\n<li>We can find strength in our community.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We can learn to accept the present moment.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We can let go of our attachments.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We can open our hearts to compassion.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We can find peace in the midst of chaos.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/alison.com\/careers\/education\/early-education-teacher?utm_source=alison_user&amp;utm_medium=affiliates&amp;utm_campaign=25747799\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/careercaptains.org\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/How-To-Become-An-Early-Education-Teacher.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-696\" style=\"width:358px;height:160px\" width=\"358\" height=\"160\" srcset=\"https:\/\/careercaptains.org\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/How-To-Become-An-Early-Education-Teacher.jpg 880w, https:\/\/careercaptains.org\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/How-To-Become-An-Early-Education-Teacher-300x134.jpg 300w, https:\/\/careercaptains.org\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/How-To-Become-An-Early-Education-Teacher-768x343.jpg 768w, https:\/\/careercaptains.org\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/How-To-Become-An-Early-Education-Teacher-600x268.jpg 600w, https:\/\/careercaptains.org\/blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/How-To-Become-An-Early-Education-Teacher-280x125.jpg 280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 358px) 100vw, 358px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/alison.com\/careers\/education\/early-education-teacher?utm_source=alison_user&amp;utm_medium=affiliates&amp;utm_campaign=25747799\"><em>How To Become An Early Education Teacher<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"10\">\n<li>We can live our lives fully and authentically, even in difficult times.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We are not alone in our suffering. Everyone suffers at some point in their lives.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Our suffering is not a punishment. It is simply a part of being human.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We can choose how we respond to our suffering. We can choose to resist it or to accept it.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>When we accept our suffering, we can begin to heal.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>We can find meaning and purpose in our suffering. It can help us to grow and become stronger.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Ch\u00f6dr\u00f6n&#8217;s book is a source of comfort and wisdom for anyone who is facing difficult times. 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